Starting a new school year is often filled with anxiety for both parents and kids. And if you’ve moved to a new neighborhood and school district this adds another level of adjusting for your child. However, with the right support from parents, this change can also be an opportunity for growth and learning. Here are some tips to help your child transition smoothly to a new school.
1. Start Early
Prepare Emotionally: Before the move, have conversations with your child about their emotions. Let them know that it’s normal to feel a mix of emotions and that you are there to support them through the process.
Share Your Experiences: If you’ve ever changed schools as a child or in your adult life, share your experiences. Discuss how you felt and how you coped with the change. This helps normalize their feelings and can offer them strategies to manage their emotions.
2. Visit the New School Together
Tour the School: If possible, visit the new school before the first day. Familiarize your child with the layout—show them where their classroom, cafeteria, restrooms, and playground are located. This reduces the fear of the unknown and helps them feel more comfortable on their first day.
Meet the Teachers: Arrange a meeting with your child’s new teachers. This allows your child to connect with their teachers in a less formal setting and helps them feel supported and understood. You can also discuss any concerns or special needs your child may have with the staff during this meeting.
Attend Orientation Events: Many schools offer orientation events for new students. Attending these can help your child meet other new students and start forming connections before the school year begins.
3. Establish a Routine
Create a Morning Routine: Establish a consistent morning routine that your child can rely on. This might include a set time to wake up, have breakfast, and leave for school. A predictable routine can help reduce anxiety and ensure that the day starts off smoothly.
Practice the Commute: If the school is in a new location, practice the commute a few times before the first day. Whether you’re walking, driving, or using public transportation, this practice can make the journey less stressful for your child.
4. Encourage Social Connections
Join School Activities: Encourage your child to participate in extracurricular activities, clubs, or sports. These activities provide an excellent opportunity for them to meet new friends who share similar interests. Being involved in school activities can also help them feel more connected to the school community.
Host Playdates: If your child is younger, arrange playdates with classmates. This allows your child to develop friendships in a comfortable, familiar environment. Even if they are older, socializing outside of school can help build strong friendships.
Be a Good Listener: After school, ask your child about their day. Be attentive and listen to their experiences, both positive and negative. This will help you gauge how they are adjusting and give you insight into any social challenges they may be facing.
5. Communicate with the School
Stay in Touch with Teachers: Regular communication with your child’s teachers is key. They can provide valuable feedback on how your child is adjusting academically and socially. If any issues arise, you can work together to address them promptly.
Understand School Policies: Familiarize yourself with the school’s policies on homework, attendance, and behavior. Understanding these rules will help you guide your child in meeting the school’s expectations, which can make the transition smoother.
Participate in School Events: Attend parent-teacher meetings, school functions, and other events. Your involvement shows your child that you are invested in their new school life, and it also helps you build relationships with the school community.
About Julie Krumholz from Superior National Bank
Julie Krumholz has been helping homebuyers navigate the mortgage process for a smooth transition to homeownership for over 30 years. She’s experienced nearly every facet of the mortgage industry, from processing, closing, loan origination, underwriting, QC auditing, and even co-owning a mortgage brokerage firm. Julie’s wealth of knowledge and passion for helping homebuyers makes her a trusted resource and friend throughout the home buying process.
